Selva Blog

Real notes on urges, habits and discipline.

Honest personal essays about cravings, snacking, takeaway impulses, doomscrolling, routines, and the small pause before a decision.

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Tracking urges

Can a habit tracker help me resist urges? What I learned from tracking my impulses

How tracking made my automatic urges more conscious, gave me an honest score and helped me stop buying the Twix bars I struggled to resist.

Doomscrolling

Why do I keep scrolling in bed even when I'm tired?

Why tiredness does not automatically make me put the phone down, and how I try to catch the moment before the endless feed carries me forward.

Understanding urges

Why does an urge feel like it needs to be acted on immediately?

Why familiar cues and immediate rewards can create urgency, and how I use a pause to become conscious before the action is complete.

Understanding urges

Why do my urges feel automatic?

How repeated choices become linked to familiar cues, why dopamine is only part of the explanation, and how I try to make an unconscious urge visible.

Sleep and impulses

Why are my impulses stronger when I'm tired?

Why tiredness can make familiar urges feel more automatic, what sleep studies actually show, and why I track sleep beside my impulses.

Doomscrolling

Why do I keep opening apps without thinking?

Why opening YouTube or social media can become automatic, and how a small pause helps me notice the decision again.

Cravings

How do I resist food cravings?

A simple look at the urge, the pause, and what I noticed when I stopped acting immediately.

Food impulses

Why do I buy takeaway when I already have food at home?

The real reason takeaway can feel easier than cooking, even when food is already sitting in the fridge.